Tuesday, April 03, 2007

Referrals?

Referrals that were rumored to be on the way did not arrive as expected. Possibly next week they say? What I want to know is did they skip a month? I know that up to 35 days or so can pass in between referrals at times. Now I'm thinking that end March expected referrals would be 1 month and end April referrals would be 2 months...... So does early April referrals equal 1 month then early May referrals another month????? Seems like a lost month to me. Rumors are also saying that when the referrals do arrive they may still only be for the rest of October???? Then November is projected to be a huge month possibly taking as many as 4 months to get through all those referrals?????? So where I was thinking possibly June for Abby's referral is now starting to look like September. See why I'm going nuts here?

8 comments:

C.J. said...

I'll meet you in the rubber room.

Kristie said...

Hang in there Jenny. Remember that rumors are just that. Unreliable and possibly completely incorrect. Worse case scenario.. you have an extra moth to get Abby's room perfect!!!
love ya!!

Mom said...

I'm going nuts right along with you!! No wonder Da can't understand when I try to explain to him!!!

Made in China said...

Meeeeeeeeee tooooooooooooo!!!!!

kris said...

I say go with Connie. And if that's not do-able, chocalate. Wine. Which is your vice? Indulge in it.

But hang in there... we can't predict the future, except to say your baby is in it.

Susan & Matt said...

Trying to explain the wait to people was so hard. I can't imagine what you have to go through. Our wait was only 7 months. We had a LID of 1/11/2005 and got our Mia on 9/13/2005.
The huge wait is one of reasons we aren't going to adopt again.
Hang in there. They are so worth it.
Susan

Elisa, Jarrod & Thomas said...

Take me away now.....where is my padded cell.

Ann said...

It's so hard to try and figure this all out. We thought we would be home with our baby by now. But it looks like if we're lucky we'll be getting a referral around september. so I'm right there with you!!!